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Monday, October 10, 2011
Feminism at work
Today I really started to like this country. And it was not because of November kind of weather with rain and wind and 8 degrees Celsius. It was because one sentence I've heard today morning. It happened in Kela office, that is in a social affairs department. I was filling out a form applying for a child care allowance (those almost 500 euro a month this beautiful country pays stay-at-home-mothers) with an assistance of a nice clerk. There were some questions about if I am employed - no, if I am unemployed - no, hm, I said - I'm just not working but I'm not register as an unemployed. And then I've heard: yes, you are not unemployed, you are taking care of your child at home and this is the money Kela pays for this care. Wow! Have you ever heard something like that? In Poland there were only some empty talks among politicians about how much is woman's work at home worth. In the States probably never this sort of question appeared even in an imagination of any politician. And here? Voila! Being at home with a little child is a job to do and for this not easy job you get some money. Easy. No wonder there is so many kids everywhere and families, which consist mostly of at least two kids and very often of three. At least this is what I've noticed living here for a month. But still what I've heard, many new mothers are getting back to work after the nine or eleven months of maternity allowance. It is a country for women - president is a woman, bishop of Helsinki is a woman and the fertility rate is 1.86 children born per woman, comparing to Poland 1.4 (and for the metropolitan areas only 1.3).
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hey, we are getting same benefits in Denmark, maximum for one year after maternity leave though...
ReplyDeleteIt is a nice idea indeed, fair play I'd say, as long as its not overused by immigrants, muslims for example. Its big problem in Denmark, as they are making kids like rabbits primary in order to get those benefits. And what kind of human beings their produce for the future of the country - very, very bad kind. In that case money is being wasted.
I don't know how it looks here with immigrants. we are paying taxes (I mean Adam does) so I don't feel guilty applying for some benefits
ReplyDeleteHey all. I am extremely sorry to hear unkind comments on "muslim families" on this nice blog. I came across this page while I was searching for Helsinki feminist movement. So, reading your nice experience about women's unpaid work being paid here in Helsinki, I am disappointed to read the above comment- which seemed to be a bit xenophobic to me. Yes, they (muslims) might give more birth to children, and it may not be good for your very developed countries. But, can we think this issue from a more humanist and more feminist perspective? And then, we might judge (!) those people. I am agnostic, but was born in a muslim country, and I am feminist, and I am an immigrant in Helsinki. I read a lot on women in Iran, Sudan, etc. That makes you understand in what hell they live. They have to be good mothers, good women, servants, etc. So before judging, we should try to provide our solidarity to our systers.. With my feminist regards...
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