About language. Again

It's already a little bit more than half a year since we've moved here, but my language skills as for Suomalainen (Finnish) are basically the same. What means - close to zero. My Finnish vocabulary is more or less on a lever of a 10 months old baby with understanding of a newborn one. And so far I did nothing to change it. Why? Because still in most cases in most situations I meet every day I don't need it. And of course the lack of time for learning is another thing. But time to time I have to encounter a person who doesn't speak English. Like recently while I was making a doctor appointment. Well, on a phone the person managed to figure out what I need and she booked the appointment for me. But when I came to see the doctor I even didn't think that she wouldn't speak English. Well, I started with English and she says something in Finnish. I repeat, that I don't speak Finnish and she again says something I don't understand. Finally I went very slowly using my hands too and she realized what's my problem. We finally got to the point, but it's really awful feeling not to be able to articulate a single word. And the Finns are so polite that they always apologize for not speaking English. That's make me feel even worse, because I live in their country and I should learn at least some basics. But when is another question. When I checked all the schedules for Finnish classes nothing could suit me. Talking about language I'm thinking what to do with our daughter's day care. The English one is great but if taking full-time very expensive. One the other hand she started to really learn English, every time she comes with some new words and songs and it's so natural for her to learn it and she understands more and more. I'm still reluctant to change this day care into a Finnish one. This can make such a distress - new place, new language she doesn't understand a word and all the kids, who can perfectly communicate in that language. But it costs almost nothing comparing with the private one...